Hey Agnes thanks!
Yep, I do agree. I’d just add that sometimes those who love us can hurt us unconsciously. I think the pain we feel after someone dies or leaves other way is not something they intended to cause us. Or even those who stay and hurt us without knowing they are doing so, unless we tell them. Often, there is a very thin line between conscious and unconscious act.
I’m glad to see you’d go for option 2 :)
Here’s to love full of love!